What Brings Me Joy
How I spend my time:
A deeply curious person who loves to learn, I have lived or worked on four continents and traveled to six. My interactions with diverse people in unfamiliar environments have offered wonderful opportunities to learn about myself and the world.
After 14 years of continuously working since my last pause, I am embarking on a personal sabbatical/micro-retirement/midlife reset, enjoying some work exchanges and slow travel.
I still call Southern California home, where my very dapper cat named Steve lives (currently well cared for by his godparent), and where I volunteered with the San Diego Asian Film Festival and taught Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR).
My love of languages has led me to learn American Sign Language from Deaf teachers at local community colleges. I have also formally studied—though do not or no longer speak fluently—Cantonese, Mandarin Chinese, Spanish, French, German, and Tshivenda, one of the 11 official languages of South Africa.
I am also rediscovering writing for myself. I used to write poetry and intend to reconnect with the practice. During the pandemic, I became a published author when the San Diego Decameron Project accepted my essay about my relationship with the food my grandmother used to make.
Constantly reminded now how short life is, I'm just over here trying to do more of what brings me joy and less of what doesn't. As Michael Bell, a facilitator with Rockwood Leadership Institute, often said, "Don't postpone joy."
What Led Me Here
Hong Konger by birth
Hong Konger by birth
Hong Konger by birth
I came to the U.S. when I was 10, leaving behind my beloved grandmother, who died from a long-term illness less than a month later. Aside from this loss that took me years to process, moving from dense urban Hong Kong to sprawling suburban San Diego was quite a shock to the system!
Studying abroad
Hong Konger by birth
Hong Konger by birth
Studying film as a first-gen college student in Paris, France, was my first time living overseas since immigrating to the U.S., and one of the most transformative experiences of my life; Paris isn't all lights and magic—a rude awakening that also whetted my appetite for diving into more unfamiliar surroundings.
Working overseas
Hong Konger by birth
Turns out family is home
Volunteering in Cambodia (with an Italian NGO) and South Africa (with the Peace Corps) opened my eyes in so many ways. For one, I realized that if I wanted to make a positive difference in the world, I could start at home in my own community.
Turns out family is home
Travels across six continents
Turns out family is home
Once I got intentional about staying in San Diego, I’ve been able to reconnect with my family and spend quality time with them during occasions big and small. I feel so fortunate to be an auntie to my growing niece and nephews.
Travels across six continents
Travels across six continents
Travels across six continents
I wouldn't be who I am if I hadn't cultivated my curiosity about the world through my travels. I love wandering neighborhoods where people live and work (maybe to see if I could live there!) and take selfies with street cats. My favorite places include Montréal, Naoshima (Japan), Phú Quốc (Vietnam) circa 2007, Ho Chi Minh City / Saigon, Taipei, Istanbul, Selçuk (Turkey), Urubamba (Peru), Asilah (Morocco), Amsterdam, and Berlin.
Programming a film festival
Travels across six continents
Travels across six continents
One of the great privileges I have is volunteering with the San Diego Asian Film Festival alongside a group of fun, smart programmers. It's the only "job" I've had where I get to use my film degree—and by far the longest one I've ever had. These folks challenge me to think critically about art making and social issues.
Career in the social sector
Mindfulness teacher training
Career in the social sector
My career in communications across the nonprofit, government, and private sectors has allowed me to meet people with huge hearts. I have loved learning from diverse industries, including education, the arts, reproductive health care, workforce development, and impact investing.
Leadership training
Mindfulness teacher training
Career in the social sector
Programs like Rockwood Leadership Institute's Building Power Fellowship have allowed me to learn powerful as well as uncomfortable truths about myself, not to mention meet changemakers who inspire me.
Mindfulness teacher training
Mindfulness teacher training
Mindfulness teacher training
An unexpected pathway for me, I began training as a Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) teacher through the UCSD Center for Mindfulness. The cohort I trained with is an incredible group of majority-Black and Brown mindfulness practitioners and teachers (AKA the Wildflower Mindfulness Collective). I am deeply grateful to them for my own practice and growth.